Ignorant People!

Sometimes it amazes me what people actually say to Mother's that have lost their babies. I was on my facebook earlier and another Mom that lost her baby was wanting to get a memory tattoo. She told a co-worker about it and the co-worker had a right to say "why would you name a dead baby" ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? I am sorry if that was me I would have bitch-slapped that girl. This makes me so angry that people think they can say something like this to a grieving mother!! You have never been on our shoes. You have never walked our path that we didn't choose. You have no right to say stupid things like that. You should be happy you have no idea what it is like to loose a baby. No matter how early or how late you lost your baby, it's still a loss. A loss is a loss... You still want that baby; you still had all these hopes and dreams for that baby. I am sooo lucky and blessed thus far in my journey I have not encountered dumb people like this. I have a great support from both family and friends. All of them read my posts on Facebook and all of them fully support the things I do to remember Addison. Some people might think its weird on how much I post or talk about Addison. I am ok with that, I am not doing it for them, I am doing if for myself. Yes, I have a memory tattoo of my daughter. Yes, I have a shadow box filled with things of Addison. Yes, I had Addison cremated. And Yes, I will keep doing things to remember Addison by.